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International Adoption Questions

Children, whether they live in the US or are in other countries, have a right to a loving, caring family.  In the past, adopting in the US was a cumbersome prospect because of the red tape, the waiting and the shrinking numbers of women wanting to place children in an adoption.  International adoptions in the past were supposedly much easier, and could happen more quickly.  Today, however, it is important to know as much information as you can about International adoptions before you begin the process.  You will want to choose to work with a Hague accredited agency to avoid political challenges.  You may want to understand the pros and cons of adopting a Transracial child.  Or it might be important to be able to choose an agency that will help you understand the mountains of paperwork involved.  These articles may help you in your information search.

Happy reading,

Susan

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Post adoption depression

With the Christmas season here and all the “holiday cheer”, it is a good time to remember that many individuals, including those who have just recently adopted a baby or child, could feel depression.  What?  Can someone have depression at such a wonderful time as getting your dream child?  Yes.  The holidays often remind us of others and their needs, but post-adoption depression PAD is real and could become more prominent during the hustle and bustle of the holiday season.  Depression could ruin your holidays, so perhaps these articles can help you understand if you are suffering from PAD and some tips to help.  Remember, however the greatest help can come from your family and doctor.  If you need counseling, your adoption agency could help, or another qualified counselor.  Make the holidays a time to enjoy, if you need help, get it.  This article on adoption issues could help you understand what PAD is.  This article on the Unacknowledged Hazard is a good one.  This article on post adoption depression gives some ideas.

Happy reading,

Susan

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Adoption plans, what are they?

As you look into the process of adoption, either as a birth mother and one desiring to adopt a child, it is vital that you plan ahead.  An adoption plan is a guide for you as you proceed in the adoption process.  It is the plan that sets your personal goals, helps you become aware of your concerns and allows you to make certain decisions about what you will and will not do.  Adoption plans can be simple or as complex, and as different as the individuals developing the plans.

Some of the adoption plan questions you’ll look at are open or closed adoption, sex of the child, race of the child, type of home you want to give your child, or whether you both will continue to work after the adoption.  The articles mentioned through links in this article might help.

Happy reading,

Susan

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A Blessing and a Half

In just two short (now there short, nine months ago, we thought the day would never come) weeks, we are going to court with my daughter and her husband and the judge will pound his gavel and say, “She’s yours!”  This wonderful time has brought a great reflection on the goodness of those who participate in the adoption process:  the adoption agency, the counselors, the home visit social workers, the lady at the store who said she was beautiful and of course, the kindness and love of a birth mother who was willing to allow us to have this marvelous opportunity.  It’s not easy being a birth mother in the adoption process, there are ups and downs, challenges and sadness, and yes, thank the Lord for these wonderful women who know their limitations and are billing to give a child a life instead of abortion.

For all those birth mothers who haven’t made the decision yet to place their baby or child for adoption, please do.  I cannot describe the joy this little girl (and our grandson who was give to us by his Mom when he was 18 months old) have brought into our lives.  These mothers cared enough to permit us a slice of heaven on earth.  Thank you.

If you are considering placing a child for adoption, perhaps these articles will help.  The article entitle considering Giving up Your Baby for Adoption has some excellent information.  Another article helps you understand the terms you should know.   Or you might like just some plain talking advice.

Happy reading,

Susan

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Traveling with your child? TSA and ideas.

Over the river and through the woods, up the plane steps, a traveling we will go.  Yup, it’s that time of year when traveling to visit friends and relatives can or should be a fun time.  Traveling with an infant or child can be an exciting adventure at least, or a pain at most.  So here are practical articles that have exceptional traveling helps and ideas to make the process go more smoothly.  Whether you are traveling with your newly adopted child or the whole pack of children, remember:  Rule one:  An extra set of clothes is a must for everyone.

  1. Especially this year with the TSA changes, flying with children can be difficult.  Visit this site for information.
  2. While this article by cmneil lists 20 tips in traveling to Haiti, you can find ideas for any trip.
  3. My article on travel for adults and children shares the basics of travel.

Have a wonderful Thanksgiving,

Susan

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Things to consider when adopting

The thoughts of a new baby or child, especially around this holiday season, are one that can excite even the timid soul.  Adoption is a joy, a great opportunity to help others, while bringing joy and excitement into your own life.  Adoption is a life-long commitment to serving another person, unlike marriage where there’s the possibility of divorce, you can’t divorce children.  Once they become yours, they are yours 24/7 and through ups and downs.  But despite all the ups and downs, there is nothing like a baby or child to teach you compassion, love, service, and help your brain stay active through constant worry.  Here are a few articles, some of them mine, on how to make a decision if adoption is right for you.

  1. This article on Open Adoption, gives five tips.
  2. What’s a home study?
  3. Adoption questions?

Happy reading,

Susan

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Placing a Child for Adoption

Searching for information about adoptions can be a major challenge in today’s instant information world.  Where to go, what is good, what is correct and how do I know?  My blog is designed to lead you to ezines and other on-line magazines that provide quality adoption information written in an understandable and well researched and thought out way.  Of course I’ll add my articles to the mix, as I know the research is substantial and I  try to add the information from the perspective of a grandmother and aunt of adopted children.  Why not try the following articles for today’s reading?

Here’s one on placing your child for adoption and another with 10 things to consider.   Visit adoption news.

Happy reading,

Susan

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Adoption Articles that help

As you click on certain words in your web browser, you’ll find hundreds of bits of information, articles, blogs, and helps in your adoption process.  While much of the information is helpful, not all is true, so be careful before signing any documents or agreeing to any services.  This Blog is designed to provide links to articles that can help you in making your decisions.  Are you looking at an international adoption?  This article on which country to adopt from could be helpful.  Or visit this web site on the documents you’ll need for an international adoption.  This adoption agency might be helpful in looking at an international adoption.

Happy reading,

Susan

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Adoption Articles that help

There are hundreds of articles posted on various ezines designed to help in the adoption process.  You can make the adoption process of greater value to you if you study the basics of adoption: Open Adoption in Nevada, and some ideas about the adoption vocabulary.

Happy reading,

Susan

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15 THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT ADOPTING A CHILD FROM CHINA

Chinese adoptions are becoming more and more popular with American families today. If you are considering an International adoption and think that it would be great to adopt a beautiful child from China, there are 15 things that you should know before you get started.

1.   Most children available for Chinese adoption are girls, because of China’s single child policy.   They range in ages, from infants to 6 years of age.  There are some boys available for Chinese adoption, but not as frequently as girls.   Older and special needs children can be adopted also.  These children live mostly in orphanages and sometimes in foster care.   There may be some issues with language and communication with older children, so it is important for prospective parents to learn their language.

2.   Chinese adoption requires that parents wanting to adopt need to be healthy, both physically and mentally.  China requires that applicants have no physical or mental handicaps, including: blindness, deafness, severe facial deformities and physical disabilities.

3.   Only adoptions that are fully completed in China are permitted in Chinese adoption. It isn’t possible to obtain guardianship of a Chinese child for adoption in the United States.  The China Adoption law has specific provisions as to what children are available for adoption and what adoptive parents are acceptable.

4.   People seeking Chinese adoption must be at least 30 years of age and under the age of 50.  If you are dealing with special needs adoption agencies and want to adopt a child with special needs, you will be eligible up to the age of 55.

5.   In a Chinese adoption you must be a married couple if you want to adopt.  No single applicants are even considered to be adoptive parents.  A minimum of two years of marriage is required.  If one or both of the applicants were previously married, then a minimum of five years of marriage is required.  No more than two divorces per spouse are allowed.

6.   Parents seeking Chinese adoption cannot have a criminal history, although some exceptions can be made for minor offenses.

7.   Prospective parents can have no history of drug or alcohol abuse, including the abuse of prescription medication.

8.   An important requirement for Chinese international adoption is that the family must have a net worth of at least $80,000.  This includes a standard $10,000 annual income per family member, including the adopted child, for a minimum income of $30,000 a year for a family of three.  This income cannot include pensions, unemployment insurance, or other government funds.

9.   The prospective family seeking a Chinese adoption can have up to four children in the family already, with the youngest being no younger than one year old.  There are exceptions made for couples willing to adopt a special needs child.  Only a childless couple will be allowed to adopt twins.

10  When a couple is participating in a Chinese international adoption, they will need to travel to China, to get the child.  It is recommended that both parents travel together, but only one parent is required to make the journey.  The average time that will be spent in China will be anywhere from 12 to 16 days.

11  The length of time that a Chinese international adoption may take from application to placement will vary from agency to agency.  A couple planning a Chinese adoption can expect a wait of about three years.  Sometimes the process is quicker if the couple is willing to adopt a child with special needs.   A child that is considered “Special Needs” may only have a minor physical impairment that may easily be surgically corrected, so this may be an option you might consider.

12  Chinese international adoption is smoothly regulated, with set timelines, court appearances and regulated fees and costs.  There are no surprises or hidden fees when adopting from China.  One of the fees you’ll pay is an orphanage fee, which goes towards improving the other children’s quality of life.

13  Also, Chinese international adoption is not a possibility if either of the applicants have a body mass index of greater than 40%, or if they are being treated, or have been treated for a mental disorder (including depression) in the last two years.

14  The adoption agency that is chosen should be thoroughly researched before making a huge deposit, or signing any paperwork.  It may be a good idea to contact an adoption attorney as well.

15  Chinese adoption is one of the more affordable adoption options when a couple chooses to adopt internationally.  Most parents who adopt children from China are very happy with their decision, and say that they would gladly do it again.

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